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Thomas Carroll
03-02-2007, 12:55 AM
Dearest fathers and brethren in Christ,

I recently acquired a small green booklet entitled: Bishop Theophanes the Recluse, On Prayer: Extracts from the book "The Nature of the Spiritual Life, And How To Adapt Oneself To It". The publisher is anonymous. Having found the following passage particularly helpful, I would be most grateful if anyone could clarify what Saint Theophan means by 'books which explain the various types of work of this nature' and say whether such books are available in English or Greek.

Asking your prayers,
Thomas

XI. Everyday occupations. (From Letter 49)

There is amongst us a belief -- indeed almost universal, that as soon as one begins to do something at home or outside, one leaves the realm of things Godly and pleasing to God. Because of this, whenever the desire is born to live in a manner pleasing to God or the conversation turns up on this subject, people usually assume that if one would do so in earnest, one must flee from society, flee from home -- into the desert or the forest. However, neither the one nor the other is true. Domestic and social activities, on which depends the very existence of home and of society, are things ordained by God and their performance is not a departure into a sphere displeasing to God, but is an activity within His province.

The result of such a wrong belief is that people just do not trouble to think about God in the course of domestic or social duties. I see that this false idea possesses you too. I beg of you then to reject it and to embrace the conviction that everything you do in the home or outside in the social sphere, as a daughter, or a sister, or now as a citizen of Moscow, is of God and pleasing to Him. For there are special commandments concerning everything that belongs to these spheres. And how can the fulfillment of commandments be displeasing to God? By this false belief you in fact make these activities displeasing to Him, because you do them not in the spirit that He wishes them to be done. God's affairs are done without any thought of God. As a result, they bring no spiritual benefit and at the same time take the mind away from Him.

Correct this idea then, and from now on start to do all work of this kind with the knowledge that there is a commandment to do all these things, and do them, as fulfilling God's commandment. When you so adjust yourself, then none of the activities of everyday life will remove your thoughts from God, but on the contrary will bring you nearer to Him. We all are servants of God. To each of us He has assigned a place and a function and looks to see how it is discharged. God is everywhere. And He observes you too. Bear that always in mind, and do every task, whatever it may be, as if it were given directly to you by God.

In this way do things about the house. And when someone comes or you yourself go out, keep in mind, in the first case, that God has sent you this person and is watching whether you receive and treat him in His way, and, in the second, that God has entrusted you with some task outside and is looking to see whether you will do it in the way He wishes.

If you so adjust yourself, neither domestic work nor an outside task, in short, will take your mind away from God but on the contrary everything will hold you close to Him, with the desire to execute the task in a manner pleasing to Him. You will do everything in the fear of God, and this fear will sustain your unceasing attention to Him.

As to what kind of work, whether within the family or outside it, is pleasing to God, I beg of you to make this quite clear to yourself by following the directions of books which explain the various types of work of this nature. Take care to distinguish between the proper kind of activities and those introduced by worldly-mindedness, by the passions, or by the desire to please people and this world. But after the firm resolution expressed by you to live in a way pleasing to God you will not need, of course, any special warnings against such activities.

Anna Brenneis
21-04-2007, 06:03 PM
Kristos anesti!!!

Dear Thomas,

The purpose of my post here is hopefully to draw renewed attention to your posting of this wonderful letter from Saint Theophan. It reminds me of a favorite excerpt from the small but powerful book by Tito Colliander entitled "Way of the Ascetics," pages 43-44: "Besides fasting we have other teachers to whom we can show obedience. They meet us at every step in our daily life, if only we recognize their voices....A novice in a cloister could not find more opportunity for obedience than you in your own home. And likewise at your job and in your dealings with your neighbor."

A priest friend of mine told me that he was afraid a particularly serious monk he knew would be disappointed to find out that he planned to marry rather than become a monk himself. He was surprised to find that the stern monk, upon being told the news, broke into a huge smile and told my friend joyfully, "You don't have to become a monk, just live like one." Seems that this monk, Saint Theophan, and Mr. Colliander are all saying basically the same thing.

In closing, here is the quote from the Fathers that appeared on the screen today as I opened the Monachos Message Board window: "Do not listen to talk about other people's sins. For through such listening the form of these sins is imprinted on you. When you delight in hearing evil talk, be angry with yourself and not with the speaker. For listening in a sinful way makes the messenger seem sinful." - St Mark the Solitary. (Quite a challenge!).

M.C. Steenberg
21-04-2007, 09:40 PM
... and do not forget the wonder series of homilies on prayer by St Theophan, published here in the Monachos Library earlier this year. (Available in the patristics collection, by clicking the 'Patristic Texts' link on the left-hand toolbar of each page.)

INXC, Matthew

Mary
22-04-2007, 02:52 AM
... and do not forget the wonder series of homilies on prayer by St Theophan, published here in the Monachos Library earlier this year. (Available in the patristics collection, by clicking the 'Patristic Texts' link on the left-hand toolbar of each page.)

INXC, Matthew


Thankyou for posting that, Matthew! I remember seeing it on the homepage some months ago, and I only read homily 1. Next time I looked for it, it was gone, and I didn't know where to find it!

I suppose I could've asked, but I don't always think clearly. =)

Mary

Celinda Grace
22-04-2007, 09:32 PM
Thomas,

Thanks for posting this letter wonderful advice and Anna, Thanks for bringing it back into a current thread.


Take care to distinguish between the proper kind of activities and those introduced by worldly-mindedness, by the passions, or by the desire to please people and this world.

If there is one thing I have learned from reading the Patristic Fathers that has been worth more then a mountain of gold to me it is that our life is never ultimately about our activity, it is about our heart. Right action flows from a heart right with God. Most of our activity is morally neutral, it becomes good or evil depending on the motives from which we act.

For instance, I may be planning to spend a night with my friends. Maybe I am doing it because I understand the importance of maintaining a vital relationship with those God brings into my life. We are human beings created for human as well as Divine fellowship. This would be a good activity. However, if I am getting together with my friends in an attempt to salve my lonliness or shore up fears and insecurities, then I am cheating both myself and my friends by expecting them to provide the intrinsic affirmation that I am valuable and loved that ultimately only God can provide.

Sometimes our motives are not clear to us, they are mixed. I find that observing the fruits of a given activity in my life can help me discern my motives. If something starts to become addictive and causes me to neglect my responsibilities then it is certain that my heart is wrongly related to this activity.




St. Maximus in 3nd century of various texts ch. 12 (Vol 2 Philokalia)

Providence has implanted a divine standard or law in created beings, and in accordance with this law when we are ungrateful for spiritual blessings we are schooled in gratitude by adversity, and brought to recognize by experience that all such blessing are produced by the divine power. This is to prevent us from becoming irrepressibly conceited and from thinking in our arrogance that we possess virtue and spiritual knowledge by nature not by grace.

I have found in my own life that this divine law, God's perfect justice manifested in love, is all around us constantly schooling us in His ways. He teaches us by experience if we have the ears to listen. As we are faithful to do, to the best of our knowledge and ability, the thing that is before us He will refine our knowledge of what is right and will show us the next thing.

Failure teaches us that we are weak, and in need of grace. It winnows away our self-sufficiency bringing us to the place where we can experience our own helplessness and deadness and thus experience more fully His power and life.

Temptations to neglect our responsibility are indicators on the 'dashboard' of our life that our heart is wrong. It is God's grace in our lives to show us in the external what has happened in our heart. These temptations can come from complacency -telling us we are allowing our love to grow cold, or feeling overwhelmed which tells us that we are failing to depend on His provision and trust Him, or vanity caused by failing to find satisfaction in serving God in the small everyday things.

Fear and insecurity are indicators that we are depending on the undependable (our own strength and wisdom) rather then on God. Having to live and act despite these fears provides a vehicle for strengthening our faith in God.

Lonliness has nothing to do with being alone. It is God speaking to our heart, telling us we have wandered and not remained in His love John 15:9-11

Disallusionment and discontent- This is a result of God growing us and inviting us into a deeper participation. The things that formerly satsified us now seem empty. What seemed so sure now seems uncertain. It is no good trying to deal with the discontent by trying new activities, and no good dealing with the disallusionment by finding new sources of authority. We must ignore the emotional craving and live in emptiness. The discontent will then soon grown into a longing for more of God and give us the strength to go deeper. The disallusionment will wean us from created things and teach us to go to God with our needs and questions.


It is not what I do that God is ultimately interested in, it is who I am becoming. As we grow, what may have been ok before will now be off limits. When we obey what we know, God sensitizes our conscience to what interferes in our relationship with Him.