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Elzabet
17-02-2007, 06:07 PM
I did a search here at the forum on addressing clergy in email and found this:


Addressing Clergy in a Letter. When we write to a clergyman (and, by custom, monastics), we should open our letter with the greeting, "Bless, Father." At the end of the letter, it is customary to close with the following line: "Kissing your right hand...." It is not appropriate to invoke a blessing on a clergyman, as many do: "May God bless you." Not only does this show a certain spiritual arrogance before the image of the cleric, but laymen do not have the Grace of the Priesthood and the prerogative to bless in their stead. Even a Priest properly introduces his letters with the words, "The blessing of the Lord" or "May God bless you," rather than offering his own blessing. Though he can do the latter, humility prevails in his behavior, too. Needless to say, when a clergyman writes to his ecclesiastical superior, he should ask for a blessing and not bestow one.

Does this apply to deacons as well?

Thank you
Beth

M.C. Steenberg
17-02-2007, 06:22 PM
The proper greeting for a deacon is 'Father', just as with a priest (despite the common habit of addressing him as 'Deacon'). However, one normally does not ask the blessing of a deacon -- unless he is a hierodeacon.

INXC, Matthew

Elzabet
17-02-2007, 06:23 PM
Thank you very much! Off to write my email...

Alex Haig
17-02-2007, 07:11 PM
The proper greeting for a deacon is 'Father', just as with a priest (despite the common habit of addressing him as 'Deacon'). However, one normally does not ask the blessing of a deacon -- unless he is a hierodeacon.

Why, as this seems to imply, do we ask a blessing from a monastic? I've always thought that one asks the blessing of only Priests and Bishops.

With love in Christ

Alex

M.C. Steenberg
17-02-2007, 07:57 PM
Why, as this seems to imply, do we ask a blessing from a monastic? I've always thought that one asks the blessing of only Priests and Bishops.

Dear Alex - It is a good question. In many places and traditions one would not ask the blessing from a monastic (and therefore also not of a hierodeacon); however, it is common in many places to make the petition of a blessing the first words spoken to a monastic, as well as the final.

INXC, Matthew